厚道的力量

文章来源:成功·励志·哲学

中国传统中“厚德载物”、“厚德载福”、“厚积薄发”就是对厚道很好的解读。

厚道,就是做人不要太精明,不要太刻薄,不要太计较,不要太决绝,不要太自私,不要太虚伪,不要太浮躁,不要太张扬,不要太贪心,不要太苛求……简而言之,就是做个实在人,吃老实饭,干老实事,莫让自己的行为太乖张,莫让自己的想法太极端。

厚道是一种精神的体现,是一种朴实的生存智慧。厚道就如冬日的斜阳、夏日的和风,不论作为人品还是作为德行,都是能打动人的。

我们呼唤厚道,又鄙视厚道,也不知什么时候,它竟被埋没在了私欲泛滥的洪流里。

厚道人不会算计,不会欺骗,不会背叛,与厚道人打交道如沐春风,如三月里沉浸在春日的阳光之下。

厚道人不耍心机,便省去了很多烦扰;厚道人没有脾气,便有了亲和力;厚道人肯吃亏,便少了许多是非;厚道人本分,因此很少招来祸患;厚道人能利人,同时也利了自己;厚道人懂得舍弃,却总能因舍而得;厚道人给别人留条路,同时也给自己留了路;厚道人心胸广大,在包容别人的同时也善待了自己;厚道人品行端正,厚道人通情达理……这些,都能够让厚道人游刃有余地处世。

在这个物欲横流的年代,尔虞我诈、见利忘义的事情比比皆是,坑蒙拐骗、投机取巧的行为屡见不鲜,厚道,是时代精神的稀缺品。

无论生活还是生命,都需要厚道的力量来支撑。厚道不是无能,而是一种涵养;厚道不是退缩,而是一种雅量。

厚道人心平气和,从来不会急功近利,总是脚踏实地,辛勤耕耘,所以才能一飞冲天;厚道人做事最踏实,从不计较付出,所以才能收获最多;厚道人能吃苦,能在逆境中昂扬,在寂寞中坚守,所以厚道人最不容易被打倒;厚道人最耐得住困苦平凡,也就最接近成功;厚道人能知足,从来不会有无穷无尽的欲望,总是能够知足常乐,所以最不容易被无法满足的欲望所折磨;厚道人心眼平,从来不苛求完美,他们的人生反而最圆满;厚道人有平常心,不会强求,他们的人生反而充满机缘。

生活中有些人喜好阴谋诡计,机关算尽,却不知心机越复杂,漏洞也就越多,反倒是厚道之人,不耍心机,自然也没有漏洞,仿佛庄子笔下的“混沌”一般,以无招胜有招;有些人斤斤计较,绞尽脑汁想着占小便宜,这样的人,看似便宜占尽,可总有吃大亏的一天,反观厚道之人,似乎总是在吃亏,而且也吃得心甘隋愿,但他们总有吃亏吃出福来的一天。

有些人一门心思钻研“成功的捷径”,总想着抄小路,走歪路,这样的做法固然可以取得一时的快意,但是,歪路之上,看似近道,实则杀机四伏,反而不如正道好走。有些人喜欢用权术来驾驭他人,常常会用背叛、欺诈的方式为自己谋私利,乍一看,他们似乎比起傻乎乎的厚道人来生活“潇洒”得多,收益也高得多,但实际上,这样的做法却是后患无穷,毕竟谁也不是傻的,你用权谋去对待别人,一旦被人看穿,你就再也得不到别人的信赖。

而事实上,权谋总会有被看穿的一天。唯一不可能被看穿的,就是真情、诚信、忠诚,等等。只有真心诚意地对待他人,别人才能够感受到你的诚意、你的真心,而由此换的,则是别人的真心和诚意。

总体来看,厚道为人,是一种最保险也最长远的人生准则,厚道为人,是一种最简单,也最无害的处世方针。

厚道人能够明哲保身,所以厚道是一种生存之道;厚道人懂得务实奋进,所以厚道是一种进取之道;厚道人懂得大道至简,所以厚道是一种心灵之道;厚道人能够得道多助,所以厚道是一种处世之道;厚道人生财有道,所以厚道是一种财富之道;厚道人能够厚德服人,所以厚道又是一种管理之道。

 “善不可失,恶不可长”,厚道是豁达大度的处世之道,它对于我们每一个人来说,都是应该深谙的处世哲学。

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